Updated to latest version of monero, downloading the blockchain is a nightmare

20D Ago
6 hours and still nowhere near the end. I have 1 Gbps connection and 250 GB of storage free so plenty of both.It download at 50 Mbps. But the most triggering thing is that every hour or so, Monero lose connection and it's a nightmare: \- It doesn't try to restart connection again by its own \- Even after you restart the connection, it takes age before it recconect. I think I restarted the connection 30 minutes ago and still it says "starting the node" Before the update everything was fine. I don't want to use a remote node since I care about the privacy. Any idea how to fix this mess? EDIT: I'm talking about monero gui for windows