i have a transfer stuck between 2 wallets in MyMonero. it shows on the receiving wallet as unconfirmed, and doesn't show at all on the sending wallet. i can't find the transaction ID on any of the blockchain explorers. my other transactions before and after have gone thru fine. its been hours and this one is totally stuck. if i try and resend, i get a double spend error. what do i do??
the only thing that set this transaction apart is that i tried to guess the fee to the exact decimal point so i would transfer the full balance. maybe i accidentally shorted the fee by a small fraction and it was ignored? if so, how long till i can retry?