Withdrawal fees from exchanges

I would like to see a future where more people are able to use bitcoin. I wanted to use the lightning network on my exodus wallet, but from buying bitcoin from binance, to withdrawing it into the wallet and then to lightning, I lost a lot of money. I baught Bitcoin for 100 Euro and lost 33 on the way to the lightning wallet This is WAY too expensive to freaking use in any way. Am I missing something important? If this is the price of using bitcoin, I really can't a afford it.